Archive for April, 2009

Hypnotherapy Seattle – Drug Addiction – Crystal Meth

Monday, April 27th, 2009

If you are dealing with issues of drug addiction, stimulants such as Crystal Meth -- and you are seeking ways of permanently eliminating those addiction issues, and live in Seattle hypnotherapy from Foundations Hypnosis can provide the tools and skills that will allow you to change your life. What is your story when dealing with Drug Addiction? Whatever the Story, now is the time to change it, and Foundations Hypnosis is the way to do it.

Personal Energy Mastery Utilizing the Power of Hypnosis to

Tuesday, April 21st, 2009

Popularized by the movie the Secret, people are finding out that they are not the victims that they once believed themselves to be. Many people are stepping up and recognizing that their lives are the results of their thoughts and their feelings. The thoughts in our brains are primarily composed of images, and these images make up our story.
We have thousands and thousands of thoughts, i.e. images, each day, most of them are simply retreads of the images that we had the day before or the hour before. It is like we are stuck watching endless reruns on TV Land, or Nick at Night, nothing really new, just the same shows over and over again.
How many of you get up in the morning, awake, aware, and grateful to be able to live, experience, and express a new day? Or do you, “as Paul McCartney says”, wake up, get out of bed, drag a comb across your head, make your way down stairs and drink a cup, notice you are late and make it to the bus in seconds in flat.
You face the day, every day with the same expectations, the same images and stories in your head.
It is time to change your Story. Truth to tell there are many ways of doing this, some are easy, some are hard, some are effective and long lasting, some are short lived and very ineffective.
Learning the language of the brain is one of the most effective, safe, and long lasting ways to create and manifest changes in your life, and using Hypnosis Seattle ~ Bellevue’s own Personal Energy Mastery system is one of the most powerful ways of creating long lasting changes in your Story.
The first part of the process is recognizing that we are pure energy, pure potential. At the deepest level of existence we are a mass of Atoms, formed together in different variations and configurations. Just like the ingredients that make up a cake or a loaf of bread are very similar, i.e. water, flour, salt, sugar, etc., so too are the ingredients that make up each physical structure, or compound. Air is made of atoms of oxygen, and hydrogen, you are made up of various Atoms mixed together in recipes that express as different physical manifestations. No matter what the physical manifestation they can all be broken down to an atomic base, and that atomic base is pure energy. Our brains are designed to process bits of electro chemical energy / information. Over the years we use that energy, in the form of images or stories to guide our lives, our actions. This is our Personal Energy, and Foundations Hypnosis teaches you how to Master your Personal Energy.
The second part of the process is learning how to step back and recognize that these bits of electro chemical pieces of energy are not the real you. We are not our thoughts, we are not our bodies, we are something much more. We are the consciousness beyond the dance of atoms, we are observer, the one who experiences and expresses life through our physical body.
Somewhere along the line we forgot that, we began to believe that we are the body, we are the thoughts, we began to let the energy of the thoughts, the stories, control us, and guide us around.
Now is the time to take control, now is the time to change your story. How do you do that? So glad you asked.
When something is generating energy is measured in watts. Since you produce waves of energy that spread out and influence, literally manifest things in your life, let’s take a look at how to take control of the Wattage of your Personal Energy, and become a Personal Energy Master.

Turn up the W.A.T.tage
To create any changes in your life you must start with three basic ingredients.

1) W = WANTS!!!! This is one of the misunderstood portions of the steps to creating changes in your life. We must focus on our Wants, but what that translates into for most people is our Don’t Wants. The brain does not know the difference between a real or imagined event, and it does not recognize the word don’t. If I were to say to you right now, don’t think about the statue of Liberty in the New York Harbor, I can guarantee that you are now thinking about the Statue of Liberty in the New York Harbor. As an example of how this rule effects your wants, let’s say you are focusing on the fact that you Want more money, well when you are focusing on wanting more money, you are actually feeling, remember those pesky electro-chemical bits of energy called emotions, (a.k.a. feelings), that you don’t have enough money, Or say that you are focusing on the fact that you want a new job, well when you have that kind of focus, what you are really saying is that you don’t have a job, or you don’t like the job you have, etc. Whenever you state that you want ________, then what you are really doing is admitting that you don’t have the thing that you want.
What you must do is decide what the experience is that you want, it is not really money that you want, money is only paper, what you really want is the experiences that having money can give you, such as having money can give you the freedom to not have to worry about being able to pay your bills, or the freedom to travel, the sense of independence to do as you please without struggling day after day with worry and stress about all the things that a lack of money entails.
The same applies to any WANT, if you decide you want less stress, more confidence in you life, then you must decide what the experience of having less stress, and more confidence will give to you. It is never the actual physical thing that you want; it is the experience that comes along with having that WANT!!!

2) A = ACKNOWLEDGEMENT, you must truly acknowledge that you can have what it is that you want, you must feel deep in your gut that you can have what it is that if you WANT. If you WANT to live a life of confidence and less stress, then you must believe on a deep level, on a feeling level, that you can experience a life of confidence and ease. You if WANT a new job as the CEO of a multi-million dollar corporation you must acknowledge that it is possible to be the CEO, you must believe that it can happen. This is a very important step in the process, if you do not believe, if you cannot actual feel in your gut that you can be a CEO of a big corporation then it would be almost impossible for you to become one, and if you did then you would not keep the position long. This is why it is so important to learn and practice daily self hypnotic exercises, you must practice to get into that space of relaxation, that place where you can visualize so strongly and allow yourself to actually feel whatever the WANT is that you are visualizing.

3) T = TRUST, this is the key ingredient, TRUST. You must trust, you must have complete faith in the fact that it will be manifested in your life. Whatever it is that you desire, a life of confidence and greater self worth / esteem, more money,, a better job, whatever it is that you WANT, can only become a reality if you TRUST that it will happen. You can identify what it is that you WANT, (step #1), and you can feel what the experience of having that want is going to be like, (step #2), but unless you can put your trust and faith in the fact that it will come true then all your desires will remain dreams and wishes. All you have to do is follow steps #1, and #2, and then let it go, because whatever you put out must manifest in your life.

Look at your life right now, no matter what the condition in your life is, you have been programmed to believe that this is what you deserve, this is what people like you get, you have been programmed to believe that you must struggle, that life is hard, that we cannot have everything that we want, that the other guy always gets the good stuff, that dieting is hard, that we must live from paycheck to paycheck, that quitting cigarettes is next to impossible, the lists goes on, and on, and on. You can want something very badly, (step#1), you can truly acknowledge that it is possible for it to happen, (step #2), but if you do not Trust that it will happen, it most probably won’t.

The one sure way to build up Trust is to keep a journal of your daily self hypnotic exercises. Every single day write down the successes of visualizations, the positive changes that are occurring in your life due to the daily exercises. No matter how small or trivial it might seem, Example, “I did my daily exercise, and I felt much more relaxed, I was able to interact with my boss, and it felt good.” In this manner you will build up your TRUST level as the changes in your life start multiplying, once you begin this process then the results that you desire will keep getting bigger and better.

Hypnosis is so powerful, so incredible in its ability to help you Change you’re Story, and thus help you to Master your Personal Energy, that you will begin to notice that doors you once thought closed to you, will be flung wide open, and the changes to your story will begin to multiply.

Don’t delay another minute, check out the links and resources page on this website. Take an online assessment, let Foundations set up an easy and powerful session that will put you on the road to a new life, a new direction.

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What Stories are You Made Up Of?

Monday, April 13th, 2009

What Stories are You Made Up Of?
DLScott CH.t / CDP / AASD

Science and physics tells us that we are made up of atoms, in actuality we are made up of stories. Many years ago Albert Einstein had said that we cannot solve the problem at the level of the problem, and yet I find that many of us immediately jump to that level of a solution as soon as we become aware of problems that arise in our lives.
I can’t tell you how many of my clients come in with the expectation that they are going to use hypnosis to uncover the deep and hidden sources of their stories. One of the greatest stories of our culture is that we are victims; that we are at the mercy of people and events outside of ourselves. Somehow if we can uncover just who did all of this to us, who started all of this, if we can just uncover the enemy, then we can escape and make a new life for ourselves.
This belief comes from the idea that our stories are true, that we are the victims of our stories, that if we can find out the source of our stories, then we will be able to stop them at the source, and everything in our lives will be swell. Nothing can be further from the truth, no matter what the source of our story or stories, are, it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you uncover the story that you yourself have been living from, and then YOU change the story, YOU find a new one to put in its place. Until you change the story that you are living from, the stories that make up your belief system, you are going to continue to live the same type of circumstances over and over again.
You must come to grips with the idea that You and You alone are responsible for keeping these stories in place, and You, and You alone can change old stories for NEW.
Do any of these stories resonate with you?
• I am not good enough
• I am not smart enough
• I don’t have a degree so I can’t get the kind of job that I want
• Life is hard
• You have to struggle to get a head
• My family never had enough money, so I will never have enough money
• Everyone in my family is overweight, so I am doomed to be overweight

Sound familiar? No matter where these stories come from, parents, school, your church,
friends, television news, or shows, whatever the origin or source of the story, it does not matter. They are all still made up stories.
As you human beings we all interpret images and messages that we receive, we take everything personal and immediately make up stories that have us at the center of the story.
A good example is in the following story. While out with friends at a party, you meet someone new. There seems to be an attraction, and the two of you talk so easily, you seem to really hit it off. Your new friend asks for your phone number and says, “I will call you and we can make a date to get together again”. You go home elated, excited, telling yourself the story that this is love of your life, that you will start dating and soon become a couple. You will sail off into the sunset with your new life partner. You spend hours and then days waiting for a phone call, but the phone call never comes. Now your happiness your excitement comes to an end. You decide that the person really never liked you in the firs. You now make up the story that you were just someone that they could make use for the evening and then toss aside. Based on old tapes, old stories of not being good enough to have a relationship, not being smart enough or pretty enough, based on old stories about life always being a struggle, or being hard, you now make up a new story about why the person hasn’t called.
The truth of the matter is that the person was called out of town on business. They left your phone number at home, and just have not been able to get in touch with you yet.
I can relate another story from my own past that exemplifies how the stories we make up, can affect us, and keep us stuck for years. When I was a teenage boy, I was trying to come to grips with my own sexual identity. Growing up in a small town in the mid-west during the 60(s) and 70(s), I was keeping myself in the closet. I wanted to talk with someone, I had to take a chance and reach out to someone that I thought I could trust. I chose my best friend, a school mate whose family had recently moved to a small town about twenty miles from me. I wrote him a letter, pouring out my feelings, telling him that I just needed someone to talk with about my secret.
I sent off the letter, assured that my friend would write me back, and we could talk. Weeks went by and no response came. Finally I ran into a mutual friend who told me that my friend had received the letter and had decided that I was sick and perverted and that he never wanted to see me again.
That was all that it took, I went even further into the closet and swore never to tell anyone about myself again, I was never going to let anyone know what I was really feeling because now I had proof that life was hard, people were no good, and I was not good enough to have real friends. I ran into my “friend” a few years after that, and I had so many walls up, that there was no way that I would let him in. My story was set firmly in place. We talked about the weather, we talked about the news, and we talked about everything except the letter.
It was several years later, after I had left the mid – west and that I decided that I wanted to put closure on the incident. I got on the internet, determined to locate my boyhood friend through the internet. Weeks of trying to find him finally lead me to a mutual friend at the last school that he attended. What I discovered was a shock and an eye opener in terms of how our lives are run by our stories. I tracked down his sister, “who I had been told by the mutual friend, knew all about the letter”. She said that remembered one weekend when the mutual friend was staying over with her, she had grabbed a letter that had arrived from me, and opened it, but never told anyone what was in the letter. She revealed that the mutual friend a crush on her brother and was angry when the feelings were not returned, and she spent a lot of time causing problems in my friend’s life after that.
My friend had often told his sister that he never understood why I stopped talking with him, why I cut off our friendship. He had never received the letter from me, but the bitter girl friend had somehow gotten a hold of the letter while she was over at the house, took it and read it herself.
When I next talked with my friend it was my own story of not being good enough, of not being worthy, that would not allow me to address the issue with him.
The saddest part to this tale is that my friend was now dead, and I would never have the opportunity to talk with him. My story, all made up and designed to protect me, kept me stuck and unable to move ahead.
So I ask you again, what stories are you made up of, and what NEW stories are you willing to believe that will allow you a brand new life, a new brand new set of life circumstances.
Are you willing to believe the following?
• I am good enough
• I am smart enough
• My life is not limited by the lack of a Master’s degree, lots of people get their dream jobs with their experience, and abilities
• Life is a joy, life is fun and exciting
• You can have the life of your dream while having fun doing it
• So what if my family never had money, I have the ability to make good money, easily, and effortlessly
• There are lots of people who have a different body weight and shape then their other family members.
You can change your story by simple techniques and skills taught through Foundations Hypnosis Seattle ~ Bellevue. You will learn how your own stories keep you blocked, how the stress you carry in your body, based on these stories, don’t allow you to experience life to the fullest. Like a river that is damned up by debris and obstacles put in its path, your life energy becomes blocked by stress and tension. You will be taught simple daily exercises that will allow you to recognize, become aware of, and then easily and effectively release old stories and beliefs that keep you from:
• Eliminating addictive and compulsive behavior
• Believing in yourself
• Increasing self worth and self esteem
• Eliminating Panic and Anxiety Attacks
• Relieving the pain of those Physical or Emotional Stories
• Eliminating Insomnia
There are literally hundreds of benefits you can obtain from Hypnosis, why not let go of the Story that has kept your life stuck, and start living a new story of grace, ease, and happiness. Call for an appointment, or take the easy online assessment provided on the Foundations website. I can assure you that you will be glad that you did.

Moving Through Grief and Loss

Thursday, April 9th, 2009

Paul sits and re-reads the letter of termination that he has received from his employer of seven years. It says that he has been a good employee, and that the company has appreciated his work and performance, but due to cut backs he is being let go. He is unable to focus, he feels fears growing in his abdomen, “What am I going to do, how am I going to support my family, how am I going to support myself? The economy is getting worse and I will never be able to find another job.”
Bobbie is home from work, it is a new town a new job, a great promotion, but she has left all of her friends behind, her family, all the familiar things in her life are gone, and she feels isolated alone. “I am so lonely, what am I going to do, I will never be able to find friends like before.”
Alex sits in his quiet apartment, it is Friday night and he is alone after his partner of 18 months walked out on him. He is paralyzed with fear that he is unwanted, getting older, no one will want him; he will never find someone who will love him or that he can love. “Why did he leave me? What did I do that made me so unlovable? Now no one will ever love me again.”
Mary sits on her couch, wrapped up in a blanket, staring at the picture of her mother on the mantle. Her mother passed on several months ago, and she has not been able to let go of her feelings of guilt about things she wished she could have said, things that she had said and wished that she hadn’t. “Mom I am so sorry, I should have spent more time with you, I shouldn’t have been so wrapped up in my own life, I should have known that you wouldn’t be around forever.”
All four of these people are experiencing common feelings of grief and loss. In each case they have experienced a loss of some type, and although the details of their losses are different, the emotions attached to the losses are quite a bit the same.
The stresses associated with loss, or changes, can be some of the most debilitating we will ever encounter, and there are going to be times in our lives in which each and everyone us is going to have to deal with life changes or losses. These life changes are many, here is a list of a few of the most common.
• Death of a friend, family member, partner, or pet
• Job loss
• End of a relationship, divorce, or separation
• Moving to a new town or new location
• Loss of belonging, or belongings
• Completion of some phase of your life, such as school, or other long term
goal(s)
• Loss of health including the ability to move or be mobile
• Loss of income
• Loss of home
We feel bad or good based on the images we focus on. In other words the images that
we carry in our brains are the source of our emotional reactions. When we are dealing with a loss in our
lives we generally tend to focus on negative, blaming, images that keep us stuck in a pattern of grief or
guilt.
Stress full emotions cause many physical symptoms and issues such as anxiety attacks, which
may include shortness of breath, heart palpitations, excessive sweating, or clammy hands. Some clients
have complained of insomnia in which they have trouble falling asleep or suddenly waking up in the
middle of the night and not being able to get back to sleep.
I have had clients who complain of fatigue, despite the fact they are sleeping proper amounts
during the night, the stress being put on the body through tense muscles, and constriction of body parts
causes and a lot of energy to be wasted and thus a continued feeling of being fatigued or tired.
Some clients have noticed that their eating patterns change, they may find themselves eating
more or eating less.
If you find yourself experiencing any of these symptoms please note that the stress of loss can
often cause such physical symptoms which feel bad or even threatening. Most of the time these
symptoms are harmless, but it is always best if you seek the advice of a medical Dr.
Elizabeth Kubbler Ross researched and wrote extensively on the whole experience of Death and
Dying, and it was through her work that we became aware of the five stages of Grief:
• Denial: During which you will deny either the loss of the impact of the loss upon your life
• Anger: During which you will become angry at the loss or some entity that you feel has caused the loss.
• Bargaining: During which you will attempt to make a deal to negate the loss, such as “if the universe will just bring back the lost object, then I will act better, I will be a better person, I will treat the person who left better, etc. etc.”
• Depression: During which you will slip into a state of either general or deep depression, unable to deal with or accept the loss.
• Acceptance: During which you finally begin to come to terms with the loss and begin to forgive and let go of the grief.
When you pass through these five stages it is not always in a linear fashion, in other wards you
may not go from denial to anger to bargaining, but instead you may go from denial to anger, then back
to denial, then to depression, and back again to denial. There is no right or wrong way to experience the
five stages of grief.
However you may find yourself traveling through the five stages of grief it will be good to have
Some kind of plan, something to help you move through the recovery process, instead of remaining
stuck. Such things as denying the feelings of grief or denying the loss itself is not going to help you move
ahead and it will in fact cause you to feel even more stress about your loss. You can block feelings for a
while, but those feelings will come back to haunt you by manifesting into the physical symptoms
mentioned earlier in this article.
In the first example given Paul lost his job, he felt that he needed to get a job, and get it quick.
He was able to do so, but he never resolved the anger that he felt over his lay off, and he carried that
anger with him for many months. The anger began to effect his relationship, his new job, and eventually
his health.
In one of the other examples Alex was unable to resolve issues of depression, which lead to
ideas of bargaining. He began to try and get over the broken relationship by a lot of partying and one
night stands. This behavior began to manifest in drug abuse, and risky sexual behavior.
As you can see it is important that you learn how to move through the thoughts and images that
we hold in our minds about the experience of the loss.
One of the best ways to do that is by developing a plan that includes such things as mindfulness,
meditation, or hypnosis. By utilizing the power of your mind you can learn how you have been
continuously focusing on the image of the catastrophic nature of the event, focusing on how bad things
are, and how they will never be the same, how they can never get better.
Your brain codes images in such a way that each and every time they come up, they illicit the
same emotional reaction, anger, fear, pain, sadness, etc. . By using the technique of Emotional Release
Therapy, taught through Foundations Hypnosis Seattle ~ Bellevue, you can allow yourself to view the
images that are associated with the loss without re-experiencing the traumatic emotions that are tied
to those images. Once you have accomplished that you can start the road to recovery by releasing the
blocks through the creation of new images and focus’ of attention.
When you hear yourself saying such things as “My partner dumped me, and I will never be able
to find someone who loves me again”, you can use new powerful affirmations and suggestions such as
“My partner and I split up, we were compatible, but there are plenty of people out there who I am
compatible with, people who will love me, and respect me, just like I will love and respect them.”
or “My mother is gone, and I never had the chance to let her know how I really felt”, instead you can
create new powerful images and affirmations such as “ when I was with my mother there were many
times when we were we able to connect and really let each other know how much we loved each other,
and I always did the best I could at the time”.
Hypnosis works with the subconscious level of the mind, allowing for new thoughts, new images
to be created, and planted into deeper levels which accelerate changes in your attitudes, your stress
levels, and thus your overall health.
Through Hypnosis you will find yourself moving through the recovery process by being able to
successfully cope with your loss, you will learn techniques and skills that will allow you to manifest the
things that you need in your life to move beyond the loss. You will gain the knowledge that will allow
accept that life is in a constant state of change, but that those constant changes do not mean that you
will not be able to move ahead with your life. You will be able to accept the new circumstances in your
life without the debilitating effects of feeling stuck and unable to move ahead with your life.
And finally you will, through, Foundation’s Hypnosis Seattle ~ Bellevue, Emotional Release
Therapy you will find yourself easily and effortlessly letting go of the past, letting go of the issues of grief
and loss, and moving ahead with your life.