DLScott CH.t. / CDP / AASD
Do find yourself struggling with issues of self acceptance. Do find that despite everything you have read about the Law of Attraction, from watching the movies by Louise Hay, Dr. Wayne Dyer, “What the Bleep, and The Secret”, reading books by countless new thought authors such as Jerry and Ester Hicks, or Gregg Braden, you are still not getting the results that you want.
Do you ever wonder why the gay community has a higher incidence rate of suicide, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, and a higher rate of HIV / AIDS. While at the same time you read about how the members of the gay community have a higher expendable income than most. Perhaps it is time to turn our attention to what is inside of ourselves, instead of constantly focusing on what is going on in the outside world.
The one thing that gets over looked is that members of the gay community are hypnotized into believing that they are less than, they are not as good as, and they do not deserve the same abundance and prosperity that their straight counter parts deserve. Many of in the community still feel as though they have to hide themselves from certain segments of the population, they constantly feel attacked and belittled by the majority of the population. After years of fighting for basic rights, and struggling to come out, there still seems to be a tough road that lies ahead.
As you may known from the already mentioned movies and books on the subject, the secret to a happier and prosperous life is to think positive thoughts and focus on what we really want in life, but something seems to always get in our way. That something is our own BRAIN and how it functions. You see no matter how many positive thoughts you can think, no matter how often you can get yourself into a happy mood, the brain is designed to react to anything that threatens your survival. The problem is that we have been raised to believe that every negative thought, every negative or uncomfortable event; from a car cutting us off in traffic, or a client who is less than receptive to our sales presentation; is responded to swiftly and single mindedly as a threat to our existence. How many times have you been focused on “I am not good enough, I am going to loss my job, I am going to loss my relationship, or in some cases I am going to have my rights taking away”.
Every time you hear something that does not feel good, your brain immediately perceives this as a threat, and goes into a fight or flight response. When you go into a flight or fight mode, our emotions go into a negative spiral, we get angry, we depressed, we get afraid, we begin to worry about what might happen to us because of the perceived threat, and it gets to the point that no matter how much you try focus on what you want, your worry about what you don’t want overpowers you, and pretty soon all of those negative things that you have been worried about are starting to actually occur in your life, and when they actually occur in your life, you BRAIN becomes even more reactive, and more focused on the negative events.
What can you do?
The first thing to do is learn how to shift your attention. Learn how to meditate using self hypnosis, and learn how to change the vibrational frequency of emotions. If you are angry, afraid, worried, or upset, just thinking about making more money, getting a better relationship, is not going to happen very easily. First you have to let go of the old emotions, and start feeling different.
By learning to meditate, by learning how to use Hypnosis, and a technique called Mindfulness, you can begin to take charge of your emotions and your thoughts and start attracting the kind of life that you want instead of the kind of life that you don’t want.
I have been a hypnotist and chemical dependency counselor for a little over twenty years. I have been exposed to numerous therapy techniques and ideas over the years, but the ones that work are based on the idea that we are not our thoughts, and we are not our feelings. We are actually the consciousness behind those things. We are master of our thoughts, we are the master of our feelings, and until we learn some simple and basic techniques to actually start taking control of what is on the inside, until we start actually learning how to switch our focus, and start utilizing The Law of Attraction, to produce the life that we truly want and desire, we are going to continue to get stuck in a life of addictions, phobias, low self worth, fears, and anxieties.
Foundations Hypnosis Seattle and Everett, has a program that is guaranteed to get you moving in the direction that you want and desire. Just listen to these two satisfied customers:
“I strongly recommend D.L. to anyone looking to seriously face their challenges/fears. He has an amazing ability to zero in on an issue and not waste time talking about all the trivial stuff. During the toughest period of my life, D.L. was one person who I knew believed in my ability to overcome the greatest challenges. Rather than allow me to focus on the problem, he helped me see things in a new light and discover a completely new way of living. Today, I enjoy my life and have a hopefulness and confidence I could never have imagined. I believe that D.L. was the spark that helped fuel my new life.” S.S.
Over the years I’d managed to define my existence with a whole lot of, I can’t. I can’t find love, I can’t get a job, I can’t go to school, and so on. With DL’s patient wisdom and experience my eyes began to open and realize there was an entire lifestyle out there for me that I’d yet to tap into. The only thing holding me back was my own belief system. And now the only thing “I can’t” do is be restricted by self imposed limitations. I now enjoy healthier relationships with my partner, friends, and family and am very excited about my progress as a student working towards the career of my dreams. Thanks DL.
So whether you are a member of the GBLT community dealing with comming out issues, or simply dealing with your own issues of self worth, and esteem, stress related issues that include obsessive compulsive behaviors and you are seeking help in dealing with those issues, then DON”T DELAY, call for your first session now, and start living the life you have always dreamed of. Foundations Hypnosis and Chemical Dependency Seattle ~ Lynnwood ~ Everett, (206) 417-4900. https://www.dlscottpersonalenergymastery.com Everett counseling therapist and North Seattle Hypnotherapy